the wonderful world of jengy

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Wednesday, August 20, 2003

Okay... wow big blog today cause "drama" sorta came up bc of my last blog... so of course, I gotta say what I have to say... ALL MY OWN OPINION... if you don't want to hear my opinion, I suggest the little exit box on the upper right corner... by the way, I'm a lil heated right now so this may sound a little meaner than I mean it to be...

CONSTRUCTIVE criticism welcome. any other kind... well that's just mean so why bother...

isn't it ironic... don't you think? that when someone gets mad about someone taking their online journal seriously & literally, but they do the EXACT same thing with other peoples' online journals...

I was just commenting. yeah, it wasn't the most positive comment, but it wasn't meant to be. I didn't mean for it to be as negative as you took it, so I do apologize for the nasty tone (if you assumed there was one). I just said what I felt... & like the quote... "do what you want & say what you feel bc those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind".

I just said what I felt. It was a response. Not an attack. I do believe that everything I said was a constructive criticism, not an evil bitchy one.

"unneccessary drama"... that's an oxymoron, as I've discovered these past years. I always thought that once I started college, there wouldn't be any more of that, but I know that "high school drama" continues WAY after high school.

It's sad how the forewarnings I sensed awhile ago came true.

Karma... when people get what's coming to them bc they've hurt other people on purpose... yes I'm a believer in karma... but I also believe that it works to those that it is meant to work on (coughcough ex boyfriends cough)

Kuya James, remember when you still went to SPSV & people would pass by and we would whisper to each other "ahh the profanity! the profanity! my ears!"

To answer someone's questions in the respective order... I didn't think it was incredibly negative; no; no; no; no; no; talk about people taking things personally!; once again, taken so personally, when if someone did the same thing, I would have said the same thing bc it's a general feeling...; taken literally bc was it supposed to be taken figuratively or freely instead?

And in the horror of repeating myself, it's incredibly ironic how people get angry @ people's online journals, & defend their own online journals, saying that they're being taken so seriously & literally.

This was said a lot meaner than it should have been. I'm only angry bc I'm so taken aback at the response my blog triggered. Indeed, the pen is mightier than the sword. I hate confrontation. I'll totally avoid it @ all costs. Unless it's with the boyfriend... bc of the comfortable-ness level thing I guess? Kind of like the family... yeah...

Need to breathe... I had a good day @ work & after work, doing the Pasta P thing once again with the bf... saw Andrew for the first time in quite awhile, showed him my navel... I miss hanging out with him & Camille.

What else what else... my thoughts arent fully processing... will blog when able...

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